We were headed west on the I-80, on our way to her favorite store (besides Target) when we had the following conversation:
Her: Mom, I know that the true meaning of Christmas is for Santa to come, but is Halloween really only about children dressed in costumes to get candy from all the people?
Me: Uh, no. (I explained what the celebration of Halloween was all about, which she found quite interesting.)
Me: Christmas isn't really all about Santa, either, you know.
Her: (Disbelieving) Yes it is. You're tricking.
Me: No, I'm not. What do you think it might be about, besides Santa?
Her: Presents?
Me: No.
Her: Candy?
Me: No.
Her: Is it the stockings?
Me: No.
Her: What is it, then?
Me: You think about it. I bet you can figure it out.
Her: Hmmm.
I filed the conversation away, planning to have a discussion with all three of the rugrats, when we parked the car and entered Costco. Which, although it was only the first of November, was all decked out in Christmas goods for sale.
Her: (Looking around.) Is it the wreaths?
Me: No.
Her: Is it the Christmas trees?
Me: No.
We stopped in front of the Nativity Set they have on display behind a glass case.
Me: (pointing it out to her) Look at this, isn't it beautiful?
Her: Yes, it's so beautiful . . . Is it the Ornaments?
Me: No! Stella. Look. at. this. (Indicating the Nativity.) What do you see?
Her: A bunch of people.
Me: (is it bad that I'm stifling giggles by this point?) Who are they?
Her: I don't know.
So then we talked all about the people in the Nativity. I pointed out Mary, and Joseph, and the baby Jesus. We saw the Wise Men and the Shepherds and the Cattle who were Lowing. I didn't once say the word "Christmas." Her ignorance on the topic was genuine.
Me: Does looking at these people and talking about them remind you of anything? Anything at all?
Her: Church?
Me: Yeah, let's go shopping.
It wasn't until she was pausing by the cakes to admire them that I saw her eyes gleam with understanding. Her eyebrows went up as she turned to me.
Her: Mom! Is Christmas about Jesus?
. . . Yes, dear Stella, Christmas is all about Jesus.
On a totally unrelated topic . . .
Yesterday, after church, this one said "I have no idea what
Latter Day Saint means, but I did learn today that zombies are real. I
cannot believe that people are going to be climbing out of their graves. Sheesh."
Clearly I have some work to do.